Opuszczeni przez siebie samych. Formy samo-odrzucenia
DOI:
https://doi.org/10.12775/PCh.2024.020Słowa kluczowe
samo-odrzucenie, osamotnienie, miłość siebie, szacunek do siebie, współczucie dla siebieAbstrakt
Samotność jest zwykle definiowana jako poczucie braku oczekiwanych relacji społecznych, opuszczenie lub odrzucenie przez innych. Istnieje jednak osamotnienie wynikające z odrzucenia siebie. Nie ma głębszej postaci osamotnienia niż bycie opuszczonym przez siebie samego. W artykule analizuję, czym jest samo-odrzucenie, jak się objawia i jakie może przybierać formy. Zarysowuję etyczny aspekt zjawiska oraz kierunek możliwej interwencji.
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